Although my life included a husband and
four sons who were keen on watching football on TV, that was not my
cup of tea.
While the men in my family were in our family room shouting instructions at the players and referees, I took the opportunity to be elsewhere doing my own thing. That is, after amply satisfying the male appetites with hearty snacks and drinks.
While the men in my family were in our family room shouting instructions at the players and referees, I took the opportunity to be elsewhere doing my own thing. That is, after amply satisfying the male appetites with hearty snacks and drinks.
I usually came back at intervals to
check on the men folks and refill their survival food supplies and ask what
the score was—as if I cared. Sorry to say, I usually didn't even
know what teams were playing. If the enthusiasm was at unusually high
pitch, I guessed that it might be the final quarter. Without really knowing what was happening on the field, sometimes
I actually stayed to follow the action, especially if the score was
close. Unexpected things can happen even at the last minute. The ball might be
fumbled, a foul declared, a penalty called, an injury caused a time
out, and the final score could be reversed. The length of the final
quarter is anyone's guess. The game might go into overtime.
Anything is possible in the final quarter—of a football game and also of a person's life.
Anything is possible in the final quarter—of a football game and also of a person's life.
It reminded me of my own final
quarter of life when so many major events have been occuring in my personal life, my faith walk, my career, family relationships and ministry. Surprising events, unexpected ones, sad and
joyful, and almost unbelievable ones. The truth is, no one ever knows
when he or she is in the final quarter of life. When I was
born, the normal life expectancy was said to be 63. A century earlier
it was much sooner. Some of my grandparents died in their late
thirties and early forties. My father died at 59. For them, their
final quarter came incredibly early in life, while they were young. I am in my 92nd
year and can more easily calculate approximately when my final
quarter of life began. But I only know that in hindsight. There
is no way to know in advance whether one is in the last quarter
of life's game or already in overtime. No one can count on a lengthy
final quarter or imagine what might happen at the last minute
to change the trajectory of life and how it would end.
Many Christian leaders and ordinary
Christians whom the Lord greatly used and blessed with longevity
remained faithful through their final quarter. They are to be greatly admired and their spiritual fruit and reputation remains. Some others stumbled and fell toward the end of their lives and in some way disgraced themselves and lost their reputation
before their game was finished. They didn't persevere in
righteousness or endure through trials and suffering—or in some
cases could not handle their material prosperity and life of ease.
A
reminder of King David who was taking some early retirement time from
his military leadership post and fell into temptation. In contrast to
the aged apostle Paul who declared about his final quarter
that he had “finished his course and kept the faith.” It isn't
possible for any of us who have known and served the Lord to simply
cruise without effort and continued vigilance through the final
quarter and coast to the finish. Watchfulness is for a lifetime,
all four quarters of life's game.
Out of curiosity, I went online to
search for the life stories of some prominent Christian leaders of
the past and current century whose successful ministries I admired. I
was disheartened to read the final quarter report about some
of them. It was not like the declaration of the apostle Paul and
seemed to invalidate all their previous spiritual accomplishments.
Is
any of us guiltless enough to cast the first stone? “Be of sober
spirit, be on the alert. Your adversary, the devil, prowls around
like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour” (1 Peter 5:8). God
promised that He has a crown reserved for faithfulness and
perseverance. If we don't watch and pray, the final quarter
can catch us by surprise with a fumbled ball, a foul declared, a
penalty called, and we will find our reward subsequently diminished
in Eternity. “Let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall”
(I Corinthians 10:12).
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