Yes, He willingly and obediently followed His Father's plan to suffer and die on the cross at the young, vigorous age of thirty. In the prime of His life Jesus bore our sins in such an excruciating way to open heaven for us.
But the Scripture also says that He endured that suffering "for the JOY that was set before Him."
Think
about it--wouldn't you be surprised if He didn’t
habitually laugh and enjoy food, companionship, jovial Jewish
festivals, and a happy home life growing up? Wouldn’t you imagine
that Mary and Joseph’s normal Jewish household was not a morose
place but rather that there would have been plenty of merriment?
Don’t
you suppose He went over to His Grandma Anne's house for sleepovers,
perhaps engaging in boyish horseplay with His boyhood buddies as they
stretched out on His grandparents’ flat rooftop under the stars
(that He created!)? Don’t you imagine Grandma Anne probably spoiled
Him by keeping her "cookie jar" stocked with sweet dates or
figs and other delicacies?
Could
you visualize Him as anything other than a normal, happy Jewish boy?
The Jewish
calendar had so many prolonged feast days for families to celebrate.
Wouldn't Jesus have had fun along the way on their regular
pilgrimages to Jerusalem with donkey caravans and camping out and
roadside picnics all the while singing the joyful songs of Zion?
Can’t
you just picture Jesus participating in the festive Jewish group
dances, and romping around the neighborhood with his apparently
numerous cousins? Think of Him as an eager teenager anticipating fun
with His relatives and neighbors and classmates from the rabbinical
school. After all, Jesus grew up in a typical Jewish cultural
environment that must have had its lighthearted moments.
As
Jesus grew to manhood, dealing with the village customers in “Joseph
& Son Building and Carpentry Shop” probably
had its humorous incidences too.
During
His years of ministry, do you think that He would have been invited
to weddings and dinners and banquets as frequently as Scripture
records if He had been a dead pan, wet blanket, miserable guest?
Even
some of Jesus' parables seem to be tongue-in-cheek, deliberate
exaggerations to make a point. The listening crowd lounging on the
Judean hillsides must have laughed with Him at His obvious
embellishments in a story He was telling.
Can't you just imagine Jesus joining someone whom He had just healed in a head thrown back joyful laugh of praise to God?
Can't you just imagine Jesus joining someone whom He had just healed in a head thrown back joyful laugh of praise to God?
Think
about the little kids who were attracted to Him, whom He welcomed in
His embrace and lifted up to sit on His lap—and think about the
moms who not only didn't snatch them away in fear but intentionally
brought them to Jesus for His blessing. Would they have trusted their
children to a sour-faced, frowning grouch?
In
His itinerant ministry in adult years His favorite stopover when near
Bethany was the home of Mary, Martha, and His good buddy Lazarus.
That’s where He could kick off His sandals, anticipate Martha’s
savory cooking, and relax. Of course He would engage in serious
heavenly conversation but probably also in plenty of family small
talk as He recounted tales of His preaching tours and some of the
bumblings of His disciples who so often "just didn't get it."
Likewise His leisure stopovers at Peter’s home in Galilee where He
was warmly welcomed to enjoy the warm hospitality of Peter's family.
Well...draw
your own conclusions...but with a smile. Just believe Jesus when He
told us the reason He came into the world was "so that MY
JOY may be in you, and YOUR JOY may be full"
(John 15:11).